As a mother you have a lot of balls to keep in the air. There's a good chance that if I ask you to think of three now, that "sex life" isn't even among them. Maybe that will also go great and you have absolutely nothing to complain about, absolutely beautiful! But if things aren't going so well, you can improve your sex life with the tips below.
I'm not in a relationship right now, but sex is very important to me. I like it, it gives me energy and makes me feel more feminine. It really benefits my work and motherhood. I am currently in a steady sex relationship for about six months, and we see each other a few nights a week (and we regularly compare our diaries and meet secretly during office hours). Here's an article about how I keep my sex life exciting!
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Improving your sex life does not come naturally. You have to do something for that. Or leave it, that's also possible 😉 .
Surprise your partner. The whole house is simply full of toys and things for the children, but there is a good chance that the damage is still somewhat limited in the bedroom. Tidy up the bedroom, scatter some rose petals over and over to the bed, and put down candles. Supplement that with a bottle of massage oil, provide some nice music and possibly a glass of wine or champagne. And maybe even some toys for yourself;). Just like in a movie. In the starting blocks? Finished! The kids really do go to sleep. If necessary, skip a few hours that night and have an extra cup of coffee at work tomorrow, that will really work itself out. You were tired otherwise, weren't you?
Yes, we know that missionary position now… and the cowgirl is also part of the standard repertoire. Or maybe you have a different standard repertoire. Anyways, break it! Maybe you used to experiment more with different positions, why or when did that stop? Time to improve your sex life!
Tip:Try this card game with all kinds of positions. Other exciting gifts are also highly recommended. Choose a nice sex toy / outfit for yourself or your partner and pack it nicely. Also fun, watching porn together or acting out.
Only sex in the bedroom before going to sleep? Say boring! Why not take a shower together, on the kitchen table, in the toilet at a party or restaurant, on the washing machine and so on. And finding a moment during the day is also quite different for many parents! Improving your sex life will be fun this way too 😉 .
This works really well for me to give my sex life more swung. Send spicy messages if you're working during the day (or can't see each other for some other reason). Maybe a little awkward to break up with if you've been together for 15 years and have only been texting/texting for 10 years about who gets the kids where and whether you still have to do the shopping… but thank me later.
It's just a waste of whatsapp. Send me:“I'm so excited for you” or “I had such a good time with you yesterday”; or feel free to be more explicit. Do you find this wording too uncomfortable? First send a (nude) photo or video of yourself in the shower. I would double check the receiver. A free piece of advice based on experience.
Maybe a bit of a crazy tip, but really consciously enjoy the sex. Or from a kiss or touch. Everything actually. Don't think about other things in your moments together. Maybe even better, think about sex more often during the day! Texting your partner about sex helps a lot with this and you will see that you are working towards the moment.
Can you do something with this? Top! But the best tip ever to improve your sex life comes from Durex. And you do it with your smartphone!
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