I always asked myself this question:
"Why do some people change their minds after making the decision to leave someone?"
It's crazy, isn't it?
Myself, I admit that when someone broke up with me...
...I tended to look forward to the day when he would reconsider!
The day when this person realizes that he was wrong and that in fact, he would rather live his life with me than without me.
But that was before ! Because, over time, I realized that this kind of story is far too complicated for me.
And above all, there was much better... The best thing is simply to be with the one who never leaves you.
And this despite the chaos of life, despite the heap of problems you have to face, despite all the external temptations...
In fact, it's about being with someone who CHOOSES to stay with you every day, no matter what.
The truth is that you deserve someone who will stay with you, even if you confide in them your shame, your fears and your complexes.
You deserve someone who doesn't judge you despite your past.
Someone who accepts this complicated past or what you take for faults.
You deserve someone who never leaves you, no matter what your situation.
You also deserve someone who doesn't run away when you express your feelings.
A person who lets you tell them how much you want to make them happy.
This person will not be afraid to hear that they are unique to you. That you've never felt like this.
And that spending your days watching her and your nights in her arms is a gift.
You deserve someone who sticks around even if your passion is all-consuming at times.
She's not afraid of your emotions because she's not afraid of the way you love her.
You deserve someone who sticks around because he or she doesn't care what you earn.
Someone who doesn't leave you when they're at the peak of their career or personal development.
A person who loves you just the way you are and doesn't care about the so-called "better" people around them.
And above all, the mere idea of exploring these other "options" does not even cross his mind. Why?
Because this person is aware of how lucky they are to have you. She knows your values and what makes you unique.
You deserve someone who makes you understand what it means to love faithfully.
To discover: The 10 Ways Men Can Destroy Their Marriage.
You also deserve someone who sticks by your side even when life is a struggle. Or if everyday life becomes a little less exciting at some point.
A person who understands that you can doubt yourself and your abilities.
She will then help you find a solution when you are confused, lost or tired.
You deserve someone who reminds you how strong you are.
Even though you can succeed alone, he or she wants to be there and share your battles and victories.
The bottom line is that we would all like to see a loved one return after they've left us.
But, in fact, what we should wish for is rather to be with someone who never leaves us.
Someone who gives up once in a relationship is likely to do so again.
While a person who has decided to stay by your side no matter the situation is exactly the one you should choose to love.
This is the one you deserve.
If you too want your couple to last, I recommend the book "The 5 languages of love" by Gary Chapman.
This book has literally saved my marriage more than once! Happy reading :-)
